Unit 2
Lesson 2.4

Como é a sua mãe?

What's Your Mom Like?

Now we move from family names to family descriptions. In this lesson, you'll learn how to describe someone's appearance — height, build, hair, eyes. Plus you'll nail adjective agreement, one of the most important grammar points in all of Portuguese. By the end, you'll paint a vivid picture of anyone you know.

Learning tips

Warm-up & Active Recall

Recap: Last lesson: age with 'ter + número + anos' and numbers 20-50. Today we describe appearance — adjective agreement is the star.
WordMeaning
o anothe year
quantoshow many
jovemyoung
velhoold
mais velhoolder
mais novoyounger
vintetwenty
trintathirty
quarentaforty
cinquentafifty

Dialog

Beatriz and Thiago exchange descriptions of their mothers by looking at photos on Beatriz's phone in Copacabana. Listen for the pattern: ser + adjective (for inherent traits) and ter + o/os + noun + adjective (for features like hair and eyes). This mix of 'ser' and 'ter' is how native speakers describe people.

📱 Olhando fotos no celular em Copacabana
Thiago
Bia, como é a sua mãe? Ela é parecida com você?
(Bia, how is the your mother? She is similar with you?)
Bia, what's your mom like? Does she look like you?
Beatriz
Minha mãe é alta, tem o cabelo comprido e os olhos castanhos.
(My mother is tall, has the hair long and the eyes brown.)
My mom is tall, has long hair and brown eyes.
Thiago
Ah, então você é igualzinha a ela!
(Ah, so you are identical to her!)
Ah, so you're a mini-version of her!
Beatriz
É! E a sua mãe, Thiago, como é?
(Is! And the your mother, Thiago, how is?)
Yeah! And your mom, Thiago, what's she like?
👩 Thiago mostra uma foto
Thiago
Minha mãe é baixa e um pouco magra. Ela tem o cabelo curto.
(My mother is short and a little thin. She has the hair short.)
My mom is short and a little thin. She has short hair.
Beatriz
Que bonita! E seus olhos são claros, né?
(How pretty! And her eyes are light, right?)
How pretty! And her eyes are light-colored, right?
Thiago
São sim, verdes. Meu pai é grande, forte, moreno — o oposto da minha mãe!
(Are yes, green. My father is big, strong, dark — the opposite of-the my mother!)
Yes, green. My dad is big, strong, dark — the opposite of my mom!

Vocabulary

Active words

WordIPATranslationNote
alto/ˈaw.tu/tall (masc.)Feminine: alta. Final -l → /w/: /ˈaw.tu/
baixo/ˈbaj.ʃu/short (in height, masc.)Feminine: baixa. Final -xo /ʃu/
grande/ˈɡɾɐ̃.dʒi/big, largeSame masc./fem. — ends in -e
pequeno/peˈke.nu/small (masc.)Feminine: pequena
bonito/boˈni.tu/handsome, beautiful (masc.)Used for people and things
bonita/boˈni.tɐ/pretty, beautiful (fem.)Used for women and feminine nouns
magro/ˈma.ɡɾu/thin, slim (masc.)Feminine: magra. Neutral description — not negative
gordo/ˈɡoʁ.du/fat (masc.)Feminine: gorda. Can be neutral or pejorative — use with care
o cabelo/u kaˈbe.lu/the hairMasculine singular — 'os cabelos' is unusual
os olhos/us ˈɔ.ʎus/the eyesPlural of 'o olho' — final -s

Passive words

WordIPATranslationNote
loiro/ˈloj.ɾu/blond (masc.)Feminine: loira
moreno/moˈɾe.nu/dark-skinned, dark-haired (masc.)Feminine: morena. Neutral description in Brazil
castanho/kasˈtɐ.ɲu/brown (hair or eyes, masc.)Feminine: castanha
comprido/kõˈpɾi.du/long (masc.)Feminine: comprida
curto/ˈkuʁ.tu/short (length, masc.)Feminine: curta. 'Curto' for length, 'baixo' for height
forte/ˈfɔʁ.tʃi/strongSame masc./fem. — ends in -e

Useful chunks

WordTranslation
como é a sua mãe?what is your mother like?
ele tem o cabelo compridohe has long hair
Pronunciation: **Alto** /ˈaw.tu/: the 'l' before 't' vocalizes to a 'w' — this is classic Brazilian. Same for 'Brasil' → /bɾaˈziw/. **Baixo** /ˈbaj.ʃu/: the 'x' here is the 'sh' sound. **Olhos** /ˈɔ.ʎus/: the 'lh' is like 'ly' in 'billion'. **Cabelo** /kaˈbe.lu/: stress on 'be', final -o → /u/. Try: 'Meu pai é alto, tem o cabelo preto e os olhos castanhos' — say it rhythmically.

Grammar: Noun-adjective agreement in gender and number; adjective placement after the noun

SubstantivoAdjetivo masc. sing.Adjetivo fem. sing.Masc. pluralFem. plural
irmãoaltoaltos
irmãaltaaltas
meninobonitobonitos
meninabonitabonitas
cabelocomprido / curto
olhoscastanhos / verdes

Regras principais:
1. Posição: o adjetivo normalmente vem depois do substantivo: 'uma menina bonita' (não 'uma bonita menina').
2. Gênero: adjetivos terminados em -o-a para o feminino (alto → alta). Adjetivos terminados em -e (grande, forte, inteligente) ou -ar (familiar) são iguais nos dois gêneros.
3. Número: adjetivos terminados em vogal → +s; terminados em consoante → normalmente +es.
4. O adjetivo concorda com o substantivo que descreve, não com o falante: 'Meu pai é alto' (masc.) / 'Minha mãe é alta' (fem.).

Adjective agreement is a core feature of Portuguese. Every adjective must match the noun it describes in both gender (masculine or feminine) and number (singular or plural).

Rules for gender:

  • Adjectives ending in -o → change to -a for feminine: alto → alta, bonito → bonita, magro → magra.

  • Adjectives ending in -e (grande, forte, triste, inteligente) → no change between genders.

  • Adjectives ending in -r or -z (trabalhador, feliz) → often add -a for feminine: trabalhador → trabalhadora.

  • Adjectives ending in -l (legal, especial) → no change for gender.

  • Adjectives ending in consoant + -ês (francês, português) → feminine: francesa, portuguesa (remove accent).

Rules for number (plural):

  • Ends in vowel → +s: alto → altos, bonita → bonitas.

  • Ends in -r, -z, -s+es: trabalhador → trabalhadores, feliz → felizes.

  • Ends in -l (with stress on last syllable) → -is: legal → legais, especial → especiais.

  • Ends in -m-ns: jovem → jovens, bom → bons.

Adjective placement:

  • Almost always after the noun: 'uma menina bonita', 'um carro grande'.

  • A handful of adjectives can come before (muito, tanto, pouco), and a few change meaning when placed before vs. after ('um grande amigo' = a great friend / 'um amigo grande' = a tall/big friend).

Agreement with the noun, not the speaker: 'Minha mãe é alta' (my mother is tall — adjective matches 'mãe', feminine), even if I (the speaker) am male.

Exercises

Fill in the Blanks — Adjective Agreement

Complete with the correct form of the adjective.

  1. Minha mãe é  . (tall, fem.)(tall — must match 'mãe', feminine)
  2. Meu pai é  . (short, masc.)(short — must match 'pai', masculine)
  3. As minhas irmãs são  . (pretty, fem. pl.)(pretty — match 'irmãs', fem. pl.)
  4. Os olhos dela são  . (brown, masc. pl.)(brown — match 'olhos', masc. pl.)
  5. Ele tem o cabelo  . (long, masc.)(long — match 'cabelo', masc. sing.)

Grammar Application

Transform the adjective as indicated.

  1. Masc. → Fem.: alto →  (masc. → fem.)
  2. Masc. → Fem.: bonito →  (masc. → fem.)
  3. Sing. → Plural: pequeno →  (singular → plural, masc.)
  4. Sing. → Plural: grande →  (singular → plural — ends in -e)
  5. Sing. → Plural: bonita →  (singular → plural, fem.)

Translation (English → Portuguese)

Translate. Watch the adjective agreement!

  1. My mother is tall and pretty.
  2. He has short hair and brown eyes.
  3. My sisters are small.
  4. What is your father like?
  5. She is thin and has long hair.

Creative Construction

Describe a family member's appearance in 2-3 sentences — use at least 3 adjectives plus 'ter' for hair/eyes.

Takeaway

Portuguese adjectives **agree with the noun** in gender and number: alto/alta/altos/altas. Adjectives ending in -e (grande, forte) don't change for gender. Place adjectives **after** the noun. Describe hair and eyes with 'ter + o/os + noun + adjective': 'Ela **tem** os olhos castanhos.'

Culture note: Brazil is famously diverse, and descriptive vocabulary reflects this. **Moreno(a)** — brown-skinned or dark-haired — is a neutral, often affectionate word used widely for people with darker features, regardless of precise ethnicity. **Negro(a)** is used respectfully for Black Brazilians; **pardo(a)** (mixed) and **branco(a)** (white) appear in official forms. Brazilians tend to describe people warmly and directly — you'll hear affectionate nicknames like 'moreninha' or 'loirinha' (diminutives). Physical descriptions in Brazil are less taboo than in some cultures, but always delivered with a smile.
Sign in to track your progress.
Explanations in: deen